What would people be more surprised to know about you? Pt. II
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Posted by Boxcar Willy, 27.01.2012 - 23:38
Marcel Hubregtse Grumpy Old Fuck |
01.12.2013 - 18:41 Written by angel. on 01.12.2013 at 17:28 if you go to a unviersity in the Netherlands I really do urge you to learn to ride a bicycle. That is the single most important mode of transport in this country.
---- Member of the true crusade against European Flower Metal Yesterday is dead and gone, tomorrow is out of sight Dawn Crosby (r.i.p.) 05.04.1963 - 15.12.1996
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angel. Evil Butterfly |
01.12.2013 - 18:44 Written by Marcel Hubregtse on 01.12.2013 at 18:41 yeah, you're right I must learn it finally
---- The Fangirl.
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mz |
01.12.2013 - 20:01 Written by Bad English on 01.12.2013 at 13:27 dude you are a primitive man =p
---- Giving my ears a rest from music.
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Bad English Tage Westerlund |
01.12.2013 - 20:20 Written by angel. on 01.12.2013 at 18:44 in Swe to , many folks from Iran who study in Luleå uni do it even if its - 20¤C
---- Life is to short for LOVE, there is many great things to do online !!! Stormtroopers of Death - ''Speak English or Die'' apos;' [image] I better die, because I never will learn speek english, so I choose dieing
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Bad English Tage Westerlund |
01.12.2013 - 20:22 Written by mz on 01.12.2013 at 20:01 Thank you I dont need those cia tools, I hate carry worthless thinks whit me when go out, old school way money in pockets, its all what yuu need and ordinary Nokia rings so .... why I need those apps, I go out to be free from net, because at home I am here all the time
---- Life is to short for LOVE, there is many great things to do online !!! Stormtroopers of Death - ''Speak English or Die'' apos;' [image] I better die, because I never will learn speek english, so I choose dieing
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Mattybu |
01.12.2013 - 21:06
I'm actually really, really fuckin smart. Like the last time it was tested my intelligence was in the 99.9th percentile so in a room of your average 1000 joes maybe 1 would be smarter than me. I post that in this thread cause well.... you know
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FOOCK Nam |
01.12.2013 - 21:27 Written by angel. on 01.12.2013 at 18:44 its very easy to do it, i learnt it at 13 in a week. im sure nobodies learn it longer than 2 weeks. And actually nobodies can teach you that, you teach yourself, just jump and ride, keeping balance well. I dont know how ppl in the West learn to ride but here in VIetnam all ppl just jump on and try til balance well... You will like i when riding bike, sounds fun especially why on earbud music on
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angel. Evil Butterfly |
01.12.2013 - 21:29
Oh no I CAN't learn on my own, I'm afraid to ride a bicycle, afraid of falling, so of course someone should teach me how to ride it.
---- The Fangirl.
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theFIST |
01.12.2013 - 22:15 Written by angel. on 01.12.2013 at 21:29 i could if you were in the area
---- http://metalstormmusicianscorner.bandcamp.com Written by Warman on 07.11.2007 at 22:39
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FOOCK Nam |
01.12.2013 - 22:18 Written by angel. on 01.12.2013 at 21:29 There is phase (also important) is learn to keep balance, u dont need to sit on the bike, just with one feet on pedal, hold up and press till the bike move running, other leg feet keep with the ground only, when the bike running that leg is some inch space above the ground for in case u fall u have that leg keep still. When on learn choose the bike not too big and not too heavy, the more soft and light weight is better. I never seen anybody can teach you but also help keep you not falling, cuz you control the bike only while on it, so yeah try get lightly weight bike, small is also better, get used to with weight with the bike first... I dont know how western learn to ride but myself true that i fall a lot both while on learn to ride then accident when on road... Haha so be fearful :p
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angel. Evil Butterfly |
01.12.2013 - 22:19 Written by theFIST on 01.12.2013 at 22:15 yeah.
---- The Fangirl.
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mz |
01.12.2013 - 22:36 Written by angel. on 01.12.2013 at 21:29 you cannot learn without falling tbh. Just give it a little time. Falling is not that bad
---- Giving my ears a rest from music.
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FOOCK Nam |
01.12.2013 - 22:39 Written by mz on 01.12.2013 at 22:32 Cool!!, similar here in vn
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Bad English Tage Westerlund |
02.12.2013 - 00:31 Written by angel. on 01.12.2013 at 21:29 thats why we have Erik I can learn you its not hard , 2 weeks and you can do it
---- Life is to short for LOVE, there is many great things to do online !!! Stormtroopers of Death - ''Speak English or Die'' apos;' [image] I better die, because I never will learn speek english, so I choose dieing
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FOOCK Nam |
02.12.2013 - 01:04 Written by Bad English on 01.12.2013 at 20:22 Me same as k7 though thats concomitantly, one diff is i use laptop. But lets see how long will you flow in life with that primitive style : ). Some way i think motorcyle is very steel.
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ANGEL REAPER |
02.12.2013 - 01:15
Me too ...what k7 said...but i use sms and text messages a lot sice they a re cheeper here ....
---- "Cross is only an iron,hope is just an illusion,freedom is nothing but a name..." "Build your walls of the dead stone...Build your roofs of a dead wood..Build your dreams of a dead thoughts"
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Bad English Tage Westerlund |
02.12.2013 - 01:26 Written by ANGEL REAPER on 02.12.2013 at 01:15 they are cheap, but I type slow, I cant typåe its lik this post tool me 30-40 seconds, whit sms I would type this 5 minutes
---- Life is to short for LOVE, there is many great things to do online !!! Stormtroopers of Death - ''Speak English or Die'' apos;' [image] I better die, because I never will learn speek english, so I choose dieing
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FOOCK Nam |
02.12.2013 - 01:26 Written by ANGEL REAPER on 02.12.2013 at 01:15 Haha coool, im glad that i have a share with 2 guys of same ancient soldier living style. Living simple life is so good. Only one thing is about the possibility of getting a girl if in case of wanting, but well, lets enjoy the moment..
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Thrashette |
02.12.2013 - 03:57
People always seem surprised when I tell them that I have/had problems with anxiety (mostly of the social kind) and depression. Some say they got that sort of vibe from me, but the majority say that they never would have expected it because I seem so calm, light-hearted, and collected on the outside. People who know me only online are surprised because apparently my Facebook profile makes it look like I have a social life and hobbies, and therefore must have a good sense of self-worth, good social skills, and a happy balanced lifestyle...
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FOOCK Nam |
02.12.2013 - 04:15 Written by Thrashette on 02.12.2013 at 03:57 Uh huh yess you do sounds like very balancing and socialful as i see..mmm is the anxiety came from boredom or like it happens into full too happy condition, or just it is only in the head.. I have a Leo mother, shes always happy, talkative, cheerful, well liked, having lots contacts and likers, outstanding and popular among crowd,..been so for all her life. But when all her people gone, she is left with her children and home dosmestical ones, she always showing sadness and depressesion..
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Thrashette |
02.12.2013 - 05:57 Written by FOOCK Nam on 02.12.2013 at 04:15 It's hard to explain everything without telling my life story... But I had social anxiety for as long as I can remember, so I used to have trouble making friends and always panic in any social situation. I was isolated and lonely a lot and that was the main source of my depression, but I've improved a lot since then. I constantly felt self-conscious and insecure, and I guess old ways of thinking are hard to break. I still feel like I'm being awkward in social situations but I eventually relax and I guess a lot of people don't notice it. There's a lot of people who seem happy on the outside but are severely depressed on the inside. During my high school years, a few kids committed suicide and at least one of them always seemed like a happy sociable person. Nowadays, I think school is mostly to blame. The workload is overwhelming for me and I'm always filled with self-doubt. I used to get rid of stress and negative feelings through playing music, doing martial arts, or going for long walks, but those were things I had to give up due to lack of free time when university started. Things really went downhill after that. Now I try to make time to at least knit or watch a bit of tv, but that's it. Even hanging out with friends is something I can only do once in a while. Many people can cope perfectly well with that lifestyle, but I'm not one of them. I think I'm just sick of the student lifestyle and ready to move on. While a lot of people say university was the best time of their life, there's also lots of people who say it was the worst time. I would say that it's mostly awful, but there were some good times and those good times were the best I've experienced. But with that being said, I'm almost done school and couldn't be happier about that.
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Cynic Metalhead Paisa Vich Nasha |
02.12.2013 - 08:45
I stand and do my poop. End of my speech.
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angel. Evil Butterfly |
02.12.2013 - 11:40 Written by Thrashette on 02.12.2013 at 05:57 it seems that you're saying the words out of my mouth... I had social anxiety since childhood, perhaps because of the lifestyle my family had, even some relatives points that the most significant thing they remember from me is my silence, aunt says your silence as a child was sometimes terrifying, even as a child I had serious anxiety when I had to walk in a crowded street or place outside of house, I didn't have any close friendship with any of the other kids around me. I didn't have deep connections with my family either. The situation gets worse in my teenage, but the worst part had happened when I finally started to study in university... I had serious troubles connecting to students and as I had to do projects, I had such difficult time to tolerate people there in campus, especially when they seemed like terrifying strangers to me, and I felt like a real alien. Such big horrible fears I should have overcome anytime I wanted to start talking to all those strangers around me even as a just a simple word like "hi", and you know when someone loses connections, the person will lose so many other things, so I failed in many of courses and I had to take them again... About some some month before starting university, I started my first serious long term relationship too, the guy had some good impacts on me in terms of helping me to overcome my social anxiety, so I improved up to some extent, but the problem was that I was relying on him so much, I mean if he was with me in a situation that could make anxiety for me then I could go through it but if he wasn't there with me then I would fail... and there again when we broke up I was knocked out... and then this anxiety has become much stronger... all n all now I have improved again though I still have the same anxiety, that I only have one very close friend, still talking in front of a group of people is such hard thing for me to do, but now I feel much better doing it. But as you said it is not really easy to explain it easily without telling the whole life story.
---- The Fangirl.
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Thrashette |
02.12.2013 - 16:03 Written by angel. on 02.12.2013 at 11:40 As much as I hate the thought of people going through the same anxiety issues as I did, it makes me feel comforted to know that I'm not alone and that other people understand. When I was younger, I was always told "suck it up", "stop being such a wimp", "go make some friends, loner" or "why do always have to be so quiet?". And of course, even a lot of people who meant well mistook my shyness for snobbishness so I was never well-liked and had trouble making friends. People nowadays have better understanding of anxiety and mental illness in general, so they know that bullying people over it is just harmful and not helpful or motivating. But I think there's a fine line between supporting people who need it and overly accommodating people to the point that they're never encouraged to improve themselves. Honestly, social anxiety didn't get in the way as much by my university years. I was able to make friends and all, even though I still sometimes find myself having to calm down and take deep breaths before initiating conversation with someone or feeling uncomfortable in crowds or bigger groups. I have many friends now but few who I can say I'm close with. In high school, I had a turning point at which I decided that I've missed out on so much because of my social anxiety and didn't want to miss out on anything else, so I worked really hard to improve. Playing music and doing martial arts helped a lot, since it forced me to communicate with others and perform in front of groups. I think my social skills are still kind of lacking, because I was so isolated at the age when most people are supposed to develop socially or maybe it's just not my strong suit. But I'm glad to have gone through the worst of it as a child rather than in my teen or early adult years when there's much more worries and pressures in life. I still find group work draining and constantly feel like I can't contribute because my ideas are "stupid" and everyone's going to come up with something better. Thankfully, I'm now in a major with almost no group work. And I'm still hopeless with relationships, but that's the least of my worries since I don't have the time to maintain one right now anyways.
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Mercyful_Kate |
02.12.2013 - 18:43 Written by angel. on 02.12.2013 at 11:40 I've had social anxiety all of my life. It really hindered my ability to make friends, especially in grade school. I really don't think I had one friend until middle school when I found people with similar interests to my own. When I did begin to throw myself into social situations, I often suffered from panic attacks. I still have them today but I know how to control them much better. Funnily enough, I'm a bartender who socializes with many people daily. I think what really helps me through moments of extreme self-doubt and anxiety is knowing that nobody notices your quirks or mannerisms the way you do. Nobody cares. They care about how you treat them and that's all. If you act standoffish towards people, they'll just assume that you don't like them. If you open yourself up to them, they'll be able to appreciate your thoughts and opinions. Nobody is as judgmental of you as you are of yourself.
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Bad English Tage Westerlund |
02.12.2013 - 20:57
Tra - what is anxiety Well facebook make me laught, because I saw a funeral pick(made for trolls) , guy was beried and only 1 was at the ceremony, and he said, I dont get it, he had a 1000 faceboiok friends LOL I have depression to so .... long story I cant explain all, whit out telling life story,m but I dont like be social, I like be in the croud, but I always stand in the shadows and I always dont talk much, Cynicv - can I watch next time LÖL and it was best what I have read hear Marie - Iran is difernt religion is the blame, so I think there are more like you there, Europe, well in europe wehere we have teoretical freedom, sometime speople uidiotism and conservatism suprises me like Ville Laihiala sings ''I am so amzed how low people can ge to be themselfs'' @Mar, Ttra, Merciful - I have no much friends at these day anyway and never havem I have some copple of peplle and I cant be at same place (unlss its home) long time abnd I liike be alone at home , I cant be whit other peoople, I cant live whit other people at same room, I need my own place
---- Life is to short for LOVE, there is many great things to do online !!! Stormtroopers of Death - ''Speak English or Die'' apos;' [image] I better die, because I never will learn speek english, so I choose dieing
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Warman Erotic Stains |
03.12.2013 - 00:11
I probably wrote in the part 1 version of this, and I probably talked about me being a blue eyed, blonde swede. Funny thing though that I come from a line with a weird mix of turks, mongols and Uzbekistan people on my grandfathers side. That always makes people laugh. My father is, or rather was, a die hard communist in his youth. I grew up with so many paintings and pictures of Marx, Lenin and Stalin in our home. I thought it was weird when I was a kid, going home to my friends and wonder "why the hell don't they have a little statue or something of Stalin in their living room?". I had a picture of Marx above my bed when I was like three years old. I had no idea who that beardy dude was, just that his name was Karl. In just one year I'll actually be an educated high school teacher in history and swedish. Feels weird when I put it in MS perspective. I came here 2005, going in the ninth grade, thought I was like this hard core metal headbanger, but just listening to three bands. Had no idea what my future would be like, I was 15 and my mom did my laundry and cooked my food.
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Bad English Tage Westerlund |
03.12.2013 - 01:19 Written by Warman on 03.12.2013 at 00:11 Can I use your teacher skills and you can teach me better swedish
---- Life is to short for LOVE, there is many great things to do online !!! Stormtroopers of Death - ''Speak English or Die'' apos;' [image] I better die, because I never will learn speek english, so I choose dieing
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Bad English Tage Westerlund |
03.12.2013 - 01:20
BTW from central or ventrre political orienteation I am turning at last years to left side , step by step I am becaiming 'more sicialistic , well life fucks as all,
---- Life is to short for LOVE, there is many great things to do online !!! Stormtroopers of Death - ''Speak English or Die'' apos;' [image] I better die, because I never will learn speek english, so I choose dieing
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Mattybu |
03.12.2013 - 01:38 Written by Thrashette on 02.12.2013 at 16:03 I don't think bullying people over being shy is not helpful, I KNOW it isn't. I was very quiet throughout high school around people who I wasn't friends with, which wasn't really a result of anxiety as much as just not being interested in talking to people I don't like/have nothing in common with (which was a lot of people) and nobody bothered me about it. Then again I was never bullied in any capacity cause a) I was always bigger than other kids b) I am fairly kind hearted towards the majority of people. It's a shame that happened to you, all that is doing is reinforcing an attitude that there is something wrong with being introverted. I'm glad things are getting along better for you now and I hope you didn't take what stupid judgmental people said to heart.
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